Regarding the copy/paste messaging thing; I've messaged girls at stickam (just for a chat). Several commented on how surprising it was to get a decent message. Unfortunately most took it as an invitation to get naked, my plans for a fun conversation soon burned to a cinder . It seems pointless to write anything worth while on such sites if those are the received replies. If I signed up to dating sites I would expect the same behaviour as received at stickam. Perhaps other decent guys feel the same, leaving only the sex crazed stupid males that haven’t worked out they’d get what they wanted if they were smarter about it to run rampant.

Writing a profile about one’s self would be quite difficult also. If you share emotion you’re automatically “emo” etc. How you write something and intend for it to be read isn’t the same as how it’s interpreted. If you say you’re smart, you’re arrogant, etc etc. That’s if someone bothers to read it and doesn’t just look at your photo~ I believe that dating sites have the potential to work when decent men/women get there. I say potential because looking for things (fine specimen, car keys, CD you can’t find etc) doesn’t always return fruitful results, being patient does.

hi5!!